When people plan to marry, they expect to find in their partner not only a lover but a friend also. In marriage we are looking for a partner who will be able to understand our values, our likes and dislikes.
If a man and a woman are from the same country, more than likely they know the same songs, movies, jokes, and so on. In the case of a western man and Russian women from a foreign country everything is more complicated, patience and understanding is needed from both spouses. Join for free
It can be very hard to understand your partner’s excitements or frustrations. Say you are watching television, suddenly you see a actor or singer, whose name you have grown up with. Maybe this was an idol for your parents and the music of this artist was often played in your house when you were a child.
This would remind you about your parents and house where you grew up in . All those memories come flooding back, You feel very light headed about this memory and want to share this feeling with your Russian wife. Join now and view Russian women
You realize that she is unable to understand your feelings because she has no idea who this artist is, she has never even heard the song before. You tell her that this artist is so famous! Everyone knows him! How it possible that she doesn't know? Your light feelings of nostalgic disappear and instead you feel within your soul at very large disappointment ...
Be patient! Don’t become upset. Remember your wife has the same situation as you. You dont know her country’s songs, and actors. She has her own memories but for her, everything is much more difficult than it is for you. You live in your own country where everybody can understand you. She lives in completely strange surroundings, where she has nobody to share her feelings with, except you.
Do some research and learn about your wife's country, culture and lifestyles. Talk with her, ask her questions, get to know what songs she likes, what movies and books are of interest to her. The Internet will give you a great opportunity to find anything! Tell her about your country's culture, let her listen to the music that you like, rent a movie for her that left you with great impression. Let her understand you better through the things that you like. Patience and time will help you to fight cultural differences . Join for FREE